SiriDhar, everybody has posted their two cents, so let me put mine to. I think you shouldn't make any judgements listening to anybody's experience. Have you talked to a girl yet? Who knows may be she was forced to reject your proposal so even though she wanted she count accept you. All of us know our Nepali society and our parents too. They can be pain in a b*** sometimes on forcing their children on the Do's and Dont's. Most of the families don't give any freedom to their children esp when it comes to marriage.

Who knows may be that girl parents forced her not to marry you or something. Jastai bhaye pani Bau, Aama le bahneko mannai paryo unless you want to disrespect them. Who knows may be her parents told her that they'll committ suicide if she goes against their decision. What would you do if it was you instead of her. Obviously you would listen to your parents ni haina. So in the same case she might as well was forced by her parents too. So always look from both sides. Look at both sides of the coin and decide what's good and bad. Good luck bro.