Posted by: Ooasis March 3, 2011
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Hey Stiffler, just a few words from myside to you. You're not cynical bro, it's obvious to have strange thought in our mind when somebody ask for financial help in a place like saja where all of us are stranger to each other.
Honestly speaking i felt the same when i first read rajanadhkari's post. It's because i have been donating few bucks every month, sometimes twice or thrice because sometime somebody in MN got into a car wreck, Some student in OKlahoma died, Some ppl in Boston has surgery. Everytime when i look at those donation.com , i couldn't hold myself and neither could you. So i feel like let's not go to the bar this weekend and give the money to this person. But sometimes i feel like, oh well, i am helping everybody like this but someday if something happen to me than do i get a same help from others or not? And you know what? I think i will. I am not a religious person but i do believe in god, i know god will watch everything and we get what we deserve. Also one thing i have learned in life. When it comes to give and take thing, always give give and give as much as you can and don't expect anything. If you expect things than you're called "DAHADE" in our Nepali language or a selfish.
When it comes to rajan also, i did the same thing. I didn't gave him anything and just avoid the thread but after i went home from work. I felt so bad and felt that i am being selfish here because his house was about to be gone and i was drinking JD with coke on the rocks with Marlboro Blend 27, my fav brand. So i just felt very bad and the very next i thought about not buying a drink for that weekend and giving that money to him. Either way i was going to spent it anyways but i spent it in a good reason this time. Even though i didn't donated million dollars but still with my small contribution, rajan was able to save his house. I feel very blessed for that. For instance i also thought that who know, he might have made up a stories but I know he was not making some stories and even if he was also, well we didn't lost anything but he himself lost his dignity.
jadau.
Honestly speaking i felt the same when i first read rajanadhkari's post. It's because i have been donating few bucks every month, sometimes twice or thrice because sometime somebody in MN got into a car wreck, Some student in OKlahoma died, Some ppl in Boston has surgery. Everytime when i look at those donation.com , i couldn't hold myself and neither could you. So i feel like let's not go to the bar this weekend and give the money to this person. But sometimes i feel like, oh well, i am helping everybody like this but someday if something happen to me than do i get a same help from others or not? And you know what? I think i will. I am not a religious person but i do believe in god, i know god will watch everything and we get what we deserve. Also one thing i have learned in life. When it comes to give and take thing, always give give and give as much as you can and don't expect anything. If you expect things than you're called "DAHADE" in our Nepali language or a selfish.
When it comes to rajan also, i did the same thing. I didn't gave him anything and just avoid the thread but after i went home from work. I felt so bad and felt that i am being selfish here because his house was about to be gone and i was drinking JD with coke on the rocks with Marlboro Blend 27, my fav brand. So i just felt very bad and the very next i thought about not buying a drink for that weekend and giving that money to him. Either way i was going to spent it anyways but i spent it in a good reason this time. Even though i didn't donated million dollars but still with my small contribution, rajan was able to save his house. I feel very blessed for that. For instance i also thought that who know, he might have made up a stories but I know he was not making some stories and even if he was also, well we didn't lost anything but he himself lost his dignity.
jadau.