Posted by: lamjung February 18, 2011
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Every second person has similar story or what? However, the best thing is, we have to accept the truth.
I'm writing some years of my past. I'm not a victim but some around me are.
Time 1: I went to KTM from Chitwan for US process. Stayed in a "room" in a flat shared with an engineering student (say Raj) and his mom originally from a Terai district. I used to eat in my uncle's dera, few buildings away. Uncle's gharpati's daughter was "fuchhi", a good SLC student eager to go to US.
Time 2: I m in US, who cares what's going on in Nepal?! Fuchhi added me in facebook in 2007, now already finished +2, needs help about US colleges. I gave regular generic hints, as everybody else, she too came somewhere. She called once and then nothing else.
Time 3: I graduated, and got a job in another state. It happened to be in Raj's place. Raj was then a grad student with a pregnant wife. I got a few free dinners. After a few months fuchhi wrote a facebook message that she is transferring to the university near my job. She finally came but Raj and 'fuchhi' didn't seem to know each other. They are from Kathmandu where living in same neighborhood doesn't mean you know each other- I thought.
Time 4. I went to Nepal. Had to stay in my uncle's dera (fuchhi's home) in KTM for visa stamping. There I learned a story related to this thread's issue. Raj and fuchhi had an affiar. So deep that fuchhi got pregnant. Raj's mother was really caring and immediately talked to fuchhi's parent about marriage. However, because the saits were little farther, they decided to abort at that time. They aborted but Raj and his mom disappared suddenly. There were hearsays that Raj got married in Terai and went to the US with his wife - which was true.
Time 5: I came back to US. Told the whole story to my GF. That's disgusting, really isn't it?
Now, my GF wants me to never speak to Raj, but we can't ignore him, it's a small Nepali community here. Everybody (except ? Raj's wife) knows about the past but we cann't talk about it.
So, what will be the best other than just keeping things inside and to never speak about it again. Everybody has a life.
I'm writing some years of my past. I'm not a victim but some around me are.
Time 1: I went to KTM from Chitwan for US process. Stayed in a "room" in a flat shared with an engineering student (say Raj) and his mom originally from a Terai district. I used to eat in my uncle's dera, few buildings away. Uncle's gharpati's daughter was "fuchhi", a good SLC student eager to go to US.
Time 2: I m in US, who cares what's going on in Nepal?! Fuchhi added me in facebook in 2007, now already finished +2, needs help about US colleges. I gave regular generic hints, as everybody else, she too came somewhere. She called once and then nothing else.
Time 3: I graduated, and got a job in another state. It happened to be in Raj's place. Raj was then a grad student with a pregnant wife. I got a few free dinners. After a few months fuchhi wrote a facebook message that she is transferring to the university near my job. She finally came but Raj and 'fuchhi' didn't seem to know each other. They are from Kathmandu where living in same neighborhood doesn't mean you know each other- I thought.
Time 4. I went to Nepal. Had to stay in my uncle's dera (fuchhi's home) in KTM for visa stamping. There I learned a story related to this thread's issue. Raj and fuchhi had an affiar. So deep that fuchhi got pregnant. Raj's mother was really caring and immediately talked to fuchhi's parent about marriage. However, because the saits were little farther, they decided to abort at that time. They aborted but Raj and his mom disappared suddenly. There were hearsays that Raj got married in Terai and went to the US with his wife - which was true.
Time 5: I came back to US. Told the whole story to my GF. That's disgusting, really isn't it?
Now, my GF wants me to never speak to Raj, but we can't ignore him, it's a small Nepali community here. Everybody (except ? Raj's wife) knows about the past but we cann't talk about it.
So, what will be the best other than just keeping things inside and to never speak about it again. Everybody has a life.