OMG, So this is how few of our sajha members behave huh. Why all guys are attacking him like this. It feels like nobody got chance to write on any threads from last few days and once they got it, here's the result. I bet you except for few users everybody else was cursing him for what he think of his wife. Guys he is just asking for a suggestion, Do's and Dont's and he is asking that i a nice way, but don't attack him like a 10 horny guys trying to get laid with a woman. It's his life, let him do what he wants, we have right to give him good or bad suggestion but we don't have right to say what's good and bad for him. Just give him suggestion, don't interprete it. 

I like the way Agni said, take her to the dinner and ask her to open. good luck and 

jadau.