I think you need to grow up bro. If you cant trust her, I bet you cant trust anyone. Who cares about your family. So it is ok for you and I to watch porns and you expect  her to be pure and devoted all her life to you. it is ok for you to have a girlfriend, but not for her. Whatever it is, thats history. Doesnt she deserve equal.

I think you are BIG LOSER who cannot see your own fault, but use her as an escape goat.  Family pide is also another excuse for you. So you hold MSc, but deep down you are so shallow. You cant even treat your wife with the respect she deserve. I feel SORRY for you. I hope you wont use her Citizenship Application as an issue and make her beg and cry.