Posted by: terobaaje February 9, 2011
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why should there even be a discussion about stuff like this? Ego and pride will always hamper any logical solution. We live in Nepal and Nepali is our National language, Deal with it. It is like english in Nepal where most people speak it, Yes Ive met many people in Nepal who dont speak Nepali from all ethnic back grounds, tamangs, sherpas, lamas, Newars etc etc. But most do.
How is it that I disrespected my wife? I call it as I seen it, My family is Rana +Thapa mixed...(thakuri) Rana side is A class SJBR. and shumsher Thapa family...YA very high up there in caste if you want to call it( u know I hate this caste system)...you think my family wasnt harsh about me marrying a Newar? Dude you dont even know what happened ...yet I married her, We were both here in the US so we went and got married without any family consent in court but later my family accepted her .........BUT Her family was the hard one to agree, one would think that someone like my family background would make any family happy to give their daughter...NO i was wrong, we were nothing but KHE..... low caste in newar culture ( yelled at my face by one of her relatives here in the USA) I almost kiled him......ya I dont take kindly to disrespect...... it took a long time before her patrents even spoke to both of us and 5 yrs later its a lot better but we Still dont talk to that insulting relative...he is younger to both of us yet hates KHE people and hangs with all his khe friends talk about double standards huh?... later We went back to Nepal and did the traditional wedding, we combined both cultures and had a very interesting wedding both families were proud and happy. We both live here in the US so you really dont have any Idea because we both left our home and everything we have here we both equally worked for it. AS for her missing her life, culture.....are you kidding me...most Nepali celebrate the same festivals, eat the same kind of food, grew up watching same TV, similar experiences like school, friends etc and culture. May be you grew up somewhere else. AS for the language ...we speak both Nepali and Newari at home...our kids need to learn both. its very important. You seem to feel sorry for my wife that she married out of her caste and has to endure so much hardship.......you are wrong and being a KHE isnt a discrimination proof we are treated with the same discrimination if we go to a ethnic majority area...STOP FEELING SORRY FOR YOUR SELF BUDDY LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO PONDER
"I grew up in ........ one caste that is NEPALI,"
Same here as long as you talk about caste. But, I am strongly for equal opportunity for preserving and promoting language. In the name of "Nepali" if you just want to keep "khas" language, there would be no common space.
what are you talking about up there?? makes no sense, what common space? why are you using the word KHAS ??? you say that talk out of fact and knowledge but all i see in you is a very delusional individual with inferior complexity and denial. Im very sorry for for you, i dont know why you think the way you do or what happened to you for your feelings to be so full of hatred towards us non newars....Now please dont say that you dont hate us and you dont need to quote our comments like you need to justify and correct us...dont do it please.
How is it that I disrespected my wife? I call it as I seen it, My family is Rana +Thapa mixed...(thakuri) Rana side is A class SJBR. and shumsher Thapa family...YA very high up there in caste if you want to call it( u know I hate this caste system)...you think my family wasnt harsh about me marrying a Newar? Dude you dont even know what happened ...yet I married her, We were both here in the US so we went and got married without any family consent in court but later my family accepted her .........BUT Her family was the hard one to agree, one would think that someone like my family background would make any family happy to give their daughter...NO i was wrong, we were nothing but KHE..... low caste in newar culture ( yelled at my face by one of her relatives here in the USA) I almost kiled him......ya I dont take kindly to disrespect...... it took a long time before her patrents even spoke to both of us and 5 yrs later its a lot better but we Still dont talk to that insulting relative...he is younger to both of us yet hates KHE people and hangs with all his khe friends talk about double standards huh?... later We went back to Nepal and did the traditional wedding, we combined both cultures and had a very interesting wedding both families were proud and happy. We both live here in the US so you really dont have any Idea because we both left our home and everything we have here we both equally worked for it. AS for her missing her life, culture.....are you kidding me...most Nepali celebrate the same festivals, eat the same kind of food, grew up watching same TV, similar experiences like school, friends etc and culture. May be you grew up somewhere else. AS for the language ...we speak both Nepali and Newari at home...our kids need to learn both. its very important. You seem to feel sorry for my wife that she married out of her caste and has to endure so much hardship.......you are wrong and being a KHE isnt a discrimination proof we are treated with the same discrimination if we go to a ethnic majority area...STOP FEELING SORRY FOR YOUR SELF BUDDY LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO PONDER
"I grew up in ........ one caste that is NEPALI,"
Same here as long as you talk about caste. But, I am strongly for equal opportunity for preserving and promoting language. In the name of "Nepali" if you just want to keep "khas" language, there would be no common space.
what are you talking about up there?? makes no sense, what common space? why are you using the word KHAS ??? you say that talk out of fact and knowledge but all i see in you is a very delusional individual with inferior complexity and denial. Im very sorry for for you, i dont know why you think the way you do or what happened to you for your feelings to be so full of hatred towards us non newars....Now please dont say that you dont hate us and you dont need to quote our comments like you need to justify and correct us...dont do it please.