Posted by: chanaa_tarkaari February 8, 2011
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terobaje,
"you have an answer ......... the same microscope. "
All my opinions and rebutals are backed up by facts and logic. I don't use strong words like "ignorant" unless people ignore the fact and keeps on repeating the stuffs that makes no sense.
"now to your comment ........no tension at all after 5 yrs"
You really don't need to disclose this much details about yourself. I hate making comments over private life. I just felt odd how strongly you used the word "Newars are the most racist" in your earlier post. Marriage is very strong relation. A girl abandons everything to get a boy. As soon as the girl becomes a mother, she goes into a huge change in her life. You can just imagine about the love, patience, devotion, care, sensitivity that she puts into her new-born baby, and at the same time she also realize that how hard it was for her parents to raise herself. This is the point she again starts thinking of her parents and start loving everything about her maternal home, culture, environment. She starts missing manything at your home eventhough you bring everything. You should have understood this better, but in your earlier post, you insulted your wife's maternal home despite the things getting normal in your life. The caste system has caused enough problem in our society. In my another post, you might have read how I was suffered by my grandparents, guthi and society when I tried breaking caste-based rules. Your in-laws might have grilled you, treated impolitely, but I still do not believe that they deserve to be called "most racist" by the standard of discrimination I faced or the discrimination still being practiced in some part of the country.
"I grew up in ........ one caste that is NEPALI,"
Same here as long as you talk about caste. But, I am strongly for equal opportunity for preserving and promoting language. In the name of "Nepali" if you just want to keep "khas" language, there would be no common space.
"you can go down ............. no turning back."
I have never preached about bloodshed. Why you are so fearful? We can make it through civil discussion and exchange of logical opinions and earn mutual respect. But use of foul language, derrogatory rhetorics and stupid ideas would make it always worse.
"Who is better ............... others to do to them."
We dig past to learn and prevent from making the same mistake again and again.
"you have an answer ......... the same microscope. "
All my opinions and rebutals are backed up by facts and logic. I don't use strong words like "ignorant" unless people ignore the fact and keeps on repeating the stuffs that makes no sense.
"now to your comment ........no tension at all after 5 yrs"
You really don't need to disclose this much details about yourself. I hate making comments over private life. I just felt odd how strongly you used the word "Newars are the most racist" in your earlier post. Marriage is very strong relation. A girl abandons everything to get a boy. As soon as the girl becomes a mother, she goes into a huge change in her life. You can just imagine about the love, patience, devotion, care, sensitivity that she puts into her new-born baby, and at the same time she also realize that how hard it was for her parents to raise herself. This is the point she again starts thinking of her parents and start loving everything about her maternal home, culture, environment. She starts missing manything at your home eventhough you bring everything. You should have understood this better, but in your earlier post, you insulted your wife's maternal home despite the things getting normal in your life. The caste system has caused enough problem in our society. In my another post, you might have read how I was suffered by my grandparents, guthi and society when I tried breaking caste-based rules. Your in-laws might have grilled you, treated impolitely, but I still do not believe that they deserve to be called "most racist" by the standard of discrimination I faced or the discrimination still being practiced in some part of the country.
"I grew up in ........ one caste that is NEPALI,"
Same here as long as you talk about caste. But, I am strongly for equal opportunity for preserving and promoting language. In the name of "Nepali" if you just want to keep "khas" language, there would be no common space.
"you can go down ............. no turning back."
I have never preached about bloodshed. Why you are so fearful? We can make it through civil discussion and exchange of logical opinions and earn mutual respect. But use of foul language, derrogatory rhetorics and stupid ideas would make it always worse.
"Who is better ............... others to do to them."
We dig past to learn and prevent from making the same mistake again and again.