Is this the way to ask for help? Dhoti pani bhannai parne, phaida pani uthaunai khojne. If you have watched Mahabharat, you know why so many good men including Bheesma, Dronacharya, Karna fought against their dear ones.  If you have to teach good things to your children, society or family, this predetermined racist attitude needs to go away.  You won't become a successful or a known man with this attitude.

Be nice to those who help you.  Don't forget anyone's favors.

Think about this once again!  It's up to you whether to follow or not.