Yes successful women do scare some men. I am a married woman and I felt the same sometimes while I was unmarried. Some women think that if they are educated and successful, all men will praise her and would like to be her friend. I have lots of male friends. They want to be friend with such ladies who are educated as well as down to earth. Men want women who can communicate with them in any topic like sports, movies, politics, history etc. i.e. a women with good general knowledge. Men want women who can argue with them logically giving good reasons.

The same applies also to Men. Some successful male want women with 32 good character.