Posted by: kailo January 22, 2011
लौ न, खत्तम भयो
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don't worry dude. life is sometimes about facing the unfair world.
my former boss always said: the world is unfair! he had faced the unsurmountable in accomplishing even the simplest of things.
and i always thought: but it's also a wheel and the cogs will change positions sonner than later.
justin timberlake took the same idea a step further: what goes around comes around!

my advice: don't intend ill of others no matter how much you might want (when angry) to harm them both. whenever you start foaming on the mouth raging with anger and thinking about the unfariness thrusted on you, think those lines i wrote above. these lines have taken me far and am sure it will do good to you too.

yes, it hurts like hell, but your intention when you helped her was good. and it will do a lot of good to your heart and soul later in life - that you did not intend ill of them even at this time. deep inside, it will help you to hold your head high!

strive harder to try and treat this episode like a page from the past. forget this situation and move on to your next chapter in life. time only can heal the wound, but it will be worthwhile. you know what: that gal wasn't for you, cos with all that love you showered on her, you deserve BETTER. Nature saw it and is trying to do some justice to you, sooner than later. but don't forget to thank the friend who told you the affair. he is a real friend. such friends are few and far between.

look at it this way. say, she was with you till next year, a month before your proposed wedding date. you would have been another 10,000 dollars poorer as you would have paid her tuition for 2 semesters, at least! cos she did NOW what she would have done timorrow, you are already a step closer towards where you should have been in the first place.

irrespective of how she will do in life (wish for her goodness still - no matter how hard it is) and this good energy will do wonders for yourself. negative energy brings in bad things - don't embrace bad thoughts at all. frustration will take over -- but read my four lines above.

good luck my friend. and good luck to the two of you there in this love triangle, secretely reading this post, guilty and sick for ripping someone's life to shreds. i wonder what her heart is made out of as i cannot even begin to fathom the filth with which it is filled with. but we are only mortals, and make mistakes. but good thoughts, my friend, good thoughts! that will take you very far in life.

peace unto you!


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