Hi, Patan bro,
I have been living with my in-laws since last six years and I have found them very helpful, supportive. Actually they helped me raise my kids while both myself and my spouse went to work. All these years they have given me a feeling of security. There are hundreds of things that I could not have done or achieved if they were not with us. I have regarded this as a blessing. It is true that after staying for so long sometimes there are small misunderstandings but this is human. I find myself very lucky that even in a foreign country my children had the opportunity to grow themselves under a pair of caring and loving hand. Sometimes I feel that I must have done something good in my previous life that I am bestowed with such a wonderful blessing in this life !
Long live my in-laws !!!
P.S. - Cases vary from person to person. The above was solely mine.