no. no. and no.
from my experience so far, like attracts like. for example, twaake keta like twaake keti because they want to 'twaak' with each other. that's it. but an educated and ambitious guy/girl seeks the same type of mate. it's in our (human) nature to seek our equal or better, not the lesser type. that's why 'good guy/girl always comes last'.
why do you ask? aafno equal date/s paaiyena ki k? :P