most often i dont comment in sajha but this guy drove me crazy to comment on it. sorry to say but u r such a jerk. friends of mine once told me wherever u go, your attitude also goes there with u so keep the attitude high. This is not about what u and she did, this is about yr sick mentality. Do you think there is any moral ground to ask whether she cheated you or not. I m not saying she did right or wrong, my concern is your sick mentality that visualize " NARI KO PARAPURUS SANGA KO SAMBANDHA CHAHI PAAP, PURUS KO SAMBANDHA CHAHI BAHADURI"

She is far more intellect and honest than you. you r such a fickle lover hiding own misconduct and nagging others.

I strongly disagree the sentence you wrote " I know this is US, but being a traditional newar guy, I cannot forget about her brief relationship with another guy". Where u live does not make things different, what you think  makes the different. if u cannot forget her relationship with other guy, how could you forget yr own relationship with hookers??? is it just because you r a boy

 Yes you r hypocrite, u find the perfect word for yourself. sorry for the words but this is what that came into my mind after reading your thread.
suggestion: accept the reality, tell the truth, if u both feel like we can move on together then go for it. Three finger is pointing towards you while one finger is pointing others.