Posted by: JavaBeans October 1, 2010
Sending Kids to Nepal- Help
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Guchha,


The decision is ultimately yours to make - however, please understand that you are forever going to change the kid's emotional stature, both emotionally and psychologically. Your current circumstance and environment may necessitate settling for such an arrangement but being separated from a mother at 2 years of age is going to be very difficult for the child to bear. It is possible for him to suffer mental traumatic stress from the new environment in Nepal and from the longing for the love of a mother - which is very emotionally attached at this stage.


I would strongly advise against it as the arrangement will risk the child's normal emotional (and social) development. I do not have a kid so I would not know much, but what I am certain is that to a parent nothing is more important than the future well-being for their kids. If you are going to action this please at least take the time to speak to a child psychologist to ensure that you are fully aware of the repercussions.


JB

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