To my defense I said he should OFFER to pay. That does not mean he needs to pay, just a nice gesture. I'm also not saying that she was right for painting his face with lipstick, that's wrong thing to do but that was out of anger and she has accepted the fact the she was wrong and he is still willing to take her back.

I think the most important thing in relationship is friendship. I'm currently in a relationship with my best friend of 13 years. We were friends for long time and we started dating 5 years ago and now we're together and could not be more happy with one another. We have our ups and downs, sometime I acts like crazy and he deals with it and there are times when he goes all crazy and I deal with it. If you love each other you have to learn to deal with the good, the bad and the ugly and that's exactly what we do.

All I'm trying to say is accept one another for who they are, there are things that needs to be compromised in a relationship but you should not have to change who you are and your personality.