Lemme ask u this. Would u have been okay had he thrown similar tantrum and painted ur face with eyeliner all over?

U prolly would say, yes. But let's make a more practical comparison, would u be ok ...let's say u both got married hypothetically, and he still spends a lot of time with his friends...though he is not cheating on u. Would u be ok?

U got ur own quirps and he's got his own.as long as u both can tolerate that u will be fine.