Posted by: gorkhalitopi September 26, 2010
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Babaal khate,
I am sure a lot of ppl working in gas stations would feel similar as you did. The loneliness, the questions that are thrown at you everyday while at work, the constant questioning of whether life would have been any more prosperous if you hadn't left Nepal, the comparisons with colleagues from high school, etc are quiet a routine. Matter of fact, this feeling is not only limited to ppl working in gas stations but includes anyone who is away from their family and living in states. However, this feeling should not bring anyone down but make us aware wot we are giving away to achieve our goals.
At the same time, the FAQ, such as "where are your from?" or "are you from India?" should not make anyone mad. The population of US is so diverse that its hard to tell where who is from. People are from all over the world and most people do want to know where you're from because they're just curious. We would have done the same thing if we were brought up here. On the same hand, I do understand there're a few racist people mostly within races of rednecks and black people. But I think we shouldn't make our view constricted based on a few idiots. Just understand how much liberty and freedom we have here although we are brand new to this land. If we compare the way Dhotis were treated in ktm, or just anyone who don't belong to the mainstream ktm culture, the rights and space we get here should be appreciated.
Therefore, bottom line enjoy ur pretty girls that come to the gas station. Enjoy when people try to learn about ur motherland, I feel proud talking bout Nepal. Ignore a few idiots and best of luck ahead!!
GT