Posted by: dimag kharab September 16, 2010
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It is unfortunate to see someone's private life being dragged into sajha. It is always a controversial topic to see such private details posted in sajha.
If it was a multi million dollar star like Paris Hilton or Tiger Wood, then it is understandable to discuss it in public, but when we discuss such details of fledgling Nepali actors/actress/model/beauty pageant who have a lot more to achieve in life, it can be damning for their careers and/or personal lives and I personally do not support such postings in sajha. Maybe if it was some super successful famous Nepali then I can understand or if it was some politician holding public office.
When such postings are seen in sajha, I see many postings against the poster and even requesting me to act upon it. I do want to act upon it, but I would prefer that the users started using the FLAGGING tool which deactivates the posting if 10 users flag the posting. This will speed up the process because there are times when I am not able to monitor such things.
I am planning to delete this thread very shortly, but I encourage the users who feel strongly against this posting to cast their votes by flagging the post on their own so that we can have a semi-self-sustaining unit in place.
Thank you for helping sajha by flagging posts you consider wrong.
If it was a multi million dollar star like Paris Hilton or Tiger Wood, then it is understandable to discuss it in public, but when we discuss such details of fledgling Nepali actors/actress/model/beauty pageant who have a lot more to achieve in life, it can be damning for their careers and/or personal lives and I personally do not support such postings in sajha. Maybe if it was some super successful famous Nepali then I can understand or if it was some politician holding public office.
When such postings are seen in sajha, I see many postings against the poster and even requesting me to act upon it. I do want to act upon it, but I would prefer that the users started using the FLAGGING tool which deactivates the posting if 10 users flag the posting. This will speed up the process because there are times when I am not able to monitor such things.
I am planning to delete this thread very shortly, but I encourage the users who feel strongly against this posting to cast their votes by flagging the post on their own so that we can have a semi-self-sustaining unit in place.
Thank you for helping sajha by flagging posts you consider wrong.
There was one occasion that one of our Doctors had to perform a LEEP procedure on a female patient and he had to ask "I know its kind a embarrassing to tell, but for your own health reasons, could you tell us how many sexual partners you ever had?"
She was in her mid 30s and her answer was "probably 88" before i got married to my husband 8 years ago."
Moral of the story: People do change after they get married. Its not the same always. so why bother?