One more time couldn’t stop myself replying to threading
after reading such a totally philosophical and don’t even worth a penny advices.

“Your actions
shapes your future. Who you are right now is because of what you did six years ago”

Don’t know about him but I know some people including myself(and
I bet he did the same thing too) worked really hard..really hard to earn a
master degree to fulfill our dream in this land and we did it successfully too,
but after that stuck in that situation from where there is no way out.

Here is my story. Completed master degree, got an OPT. The
problem is that all company want to hire either permanent residence or
citizens. Quite few will go for the H1 too, and many of them even don’t what Opt
is? So all of us ended up with some head hunters(Indian consultancy) and I guess
I don’t have to explain how it will work? For us, it was recession and there was
no job we could able to land on. Don’t tell me we were not strong or motivated nobody
didn’t witnessed our hard work and motivation at that time. After spending almost
a year what would be the other option ? its not only my story,  beer  to you if 8 out of 10 people here in sajha doesn’t
reflect the same or similar kind of story.

"Where
there is a will there is a way"

Brother it is easier to write these words. There will be defiantly
a way if you can lie and cheat. So many people who lied and cheated are proud
citizens. Doesn’t matter whether it is case for the asylum , for h1, or
marriage or any other so called option. But they cheated at some point. Again,
all of you ask yourself (all h1 holders or citizens or pr) ,that paper you had
is because of your hard work, determination or just because at some point of
your life you cheated to  get that. Let
me see how many of your can come up with your story.

 “how about you spend ten
minutes of your life thinking what you want to achieve in the next ten years?”

It’s bulls**t brother. Pardon my language but you know it
too. That ten minutes wouldn’t be good enough to determine what we want to achieve
in our life in next ten years. Did u try it with yourself? Where did you see
yourself ten years from now?  

“This is a
typical mind set of Nepalese I come across. Blaming their situation and not
doing anything about “

It’s not the typical mind set brother, sometimes its all
about the bad timing. You already know our situation, I would salute you or
anyone here in sajha who would come with an honest and genuine idea to solve
this problem. The problem is you can’t coz you know the situation too and u don’t
see any solution either.  You are lucky,
for whom time went good and your hard work yielded good results, but for us it
didn’t .We know the frustration brother don’t tell us we are not doing anything
about it. Coz we can’t.

“We should
not complain about USA bringing many refugee to this country or granting asylum
status to many people with fraud documents or DV winner”

I do have problem when it brings a fake refugee. When it
grants fake asylum cases. An idiot who is on drug  all time, talk about shits and involve into
crime would get a green card, but people who have completed their PHD with an
honor would end up in some dhoti’s gas station or motel just because he doesn’t
have paper. How fair is that ? do you really think people who earned their PHD
degree hadn’t worked hard , wasn’t smart enough  or hadn’t have strong motivation?

As far as DV I don’t have any complain. Its luck and if you
are lucky you will be  a king.

“ You gotta work harder! If
others can do it, why can't you”

Bidharthi, kasle kaam dincha ra h1 file garcha. Already nai
tetro padhi sakyo aaba OPT pani aaudaina. What are the other options? I am
talking about staying here in USA. Please don’t’ suggest to go back. It’s a
biter truth brother but no matter how hard we work it won’t give us any result, coz
we even don’t have a starting point now.

Sorry, if I wrote too hard words over here. With all these
words I want to finish my reply with :

“WHATEVER IT IS, AMERICA MA HARER PHARKINNA.”