DO what I did bro, I felt they same way like you very similar situation, but later i couldnt take it no more so I was very stern and direct with her, I took a huge risk and on a dinner date I told her how I felt, how she made me feel, and I didnt want to waste HER time if there was nothing for me ahead. I told her that I loved her and was 100% comitted, but I couldnt waste my time not knowing the future, Because it was driving me crazy and couldnt function normally, so I demanded an answer right now and then or its OVER. guess what...........

We have been happily married for 7 years one kid and looking forward growing old together. Becareful bro this could have negetive outcome.