I have known this girl for a while and we have been chatting and talking on the phone. She is very friendly and caring, in fact I have never felt so much cared for in my life. On the phone, she tells me that she loves me a lot and is very romantic and passionate.We slowly realised that we both have strong feelings for each other and decided to go for a movie. But when we met, she was very cold and uninterested and acted like nothing has ever happened. I understood that she wasn't confortable the first time. When I called that night, she was very emotional again and told me that she really really loves me and misses me all the time. When we met again, she lacked any enthusiasm and did not even look in my eyes much. She looked like she was in a rush and ignored every romantic feelings I was trying to convey. I wondered what wrong I had done. When she left, she sent me a text that she was sorry abt being that way and that she seriously loves me and almost cried too.

This cycle has been going on for a while and I am really really confused. I really like her but she is so different in real life than on the phone. She doesn't wanna meet in alone either. I have no idea what I should tell her and do next. Has anyone else gone through something like this before? Suggestions appreciated.