I have seen this msg dozen of time in many forum, emails, and FB. Every time I see, kind of guilt spike on my heart. However, I am not even close to the son as described in this msg. As far as I recall it correctly, I had never put my parents in a bad situation that I should feel guilty. Interestingly, early this summer, I read this paragraph to my father when we were together...........and saw smirk on his face. Importantly, I am myself a father now.