i don't come to sajha for any of the reasons up there. if i liked those things so much i would happily go back to Nepal to enjoy them again. as a matter of fact, i hate all of the above things. I hate walking by ratna park, it stinks like urine and too crowded also i don't know when will i step on some fresh poop and ruin my day. I don't like eating pustakari,kakra, etc from the street vendors as they are highly unhygienic and they give me jhada pakhala  right away. I only used to eat makai and badam , but that too if i have a plenty of time. even that after a while became difficult because you have to maintain the stigma of being a civilized b.s in kathmandu and if your side hanay ko keti finds you eating those and tolling around ratna park chances are you're soon going to end up in another glorious place you forgot to mention ie, the bhattis of around maha boudha and you'll be sleeping in a warm comfort of stray dogs afterwards.  I hate visiting to my relatives without calling them, they always give me nasty omlet and tea , even when the temp is around 100. and more over i didn't like them coming to my house unexpected so i did not just show up without calling to boost the tradition.  i come here so i can check out the beautiful pictures of Nepali women. I come here so i can find out how to slip and slide the immigration and make my life easier in this foreign land. i come here to find out what other Nepali people are doing to make money etc etc..