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Good suggestion commando! The episode 3 of Mahabharat is a gr8 pratical suggestion.
Gangster bro! There is nothing beautiful as hope because we use it (hope) to heal our "self." When we hit the rock bottom the only place we can look is up.
Here are some thoughts hoping it will make some sense to you in a positive out-look
"If Life is a Game, These are the Rules
Cherie Carter-Scott
In workshops and retreats, on photocopies and emails, on noticeboards and
fridge doors, the 'Ten Rules for Being Human' have been spreading round the
world like wildfire, so, in all probability, you've already seen them. In case you
haven't, they're brilliant, and here they are, together with Cherie Carter-Scott's
summary of how you can use them as a primer for higher consciousness.
Rule One
You will receive a body
. You may love it or hate it, but it will be yours for theduration of your life on Earth.
Rule Two
You will be presented with lessons
. You are enrolled in a full-time informalschool called ‘life.' Each day in this school you will have the opportunity to
learn lessons. You may like the lessons or hate them, but you have designed
them as part of your curriculum.
Rule Three
There are no mistakes, only lessons
. Growth is a process of experimentation, aseries of trials, errors, and occasional victories. The failed experiments are as
much a part of the process as the experiments that work.
Rule Four
A lesson is repeated until learned
. Lessons will be repeated to you in variousforms until you have learned them. When you have learned them, you can
then go on to the next lesson.
Rule Five
Learning does not end
. There is no part of life that does not contain lessons. Ifyou are alive, there are lessons to be learned.
Rule Six
‘There’ is no better than ‘here’.
When your ‘there’ has become a ‘here,' you willsimply obtain a ‘there’ that will look better to you than your present ‘here’.
Rule Seven
Others are only mirrors of you
. You cannot love or hate something aboutanother person unless it reflects something you love or hate about yourself.
Rule Eight
What you make of your life is up to you
. You have all the tools and resourcesyou need. What you do with them is up to you.
Rule Nine
Your answers lie inside of you.
All you need to do is look, listen, and trust.Rule Ten
You will forget all of this at birth
. You can remember it if you want byunravelling the double helix of inner knowing.
Summary
Your time here on Earth is brief. Time passes and things change. You have
options and choices in which to make your wishes, dreams, and goals become
reality.
When you ask yourself, ‘Why am I here?’ or ‘Why is this happening to me?’ or
‘What's it all about?’ turn to your spiritual primer. Ask yourself, ‘What is the
lesson?’ If you hear a defensive reaction using the words ‘never’ or ‘always’ in
your response, you haven’t yet learned the lesson. Next, go a little deeper and
ask, ‘What is there for me to learn from this experience?’
Each time you view your circumstances as possessing value, regardless of the
apparent confusion or hardship, you grow. Your personal evolution will
depend on how readily you embrace your lessons and integrate them into your
life. Remember, the only consequence for resisting lessons, is that they will
keep repeating themselves until you learn them. When you have learned a
lesson, you will always be tested. When the lesson is learned, the test will be
easily passed, and you then move on to more complex and challenging ones.
You can look back on the incidents in your past and see clearly the lessons you
have learned, resisted, and are still repeating.
‘Yesterday is history, tomorrowis a mystery, and today is a gift, that is why we call it the present.’
It is more challenging to look at your present situation and see exactly what
your lessons are. Looking into the future is the most difficult. Wishing that
you had already graduated from the school of life does not accelerate your
progress or make the lessons any easier. Examining the situation for the real
lesson is the scavenger hunt.
Remind yourself that you are here to learn lessons. Be present with your
process. Pay attention to what you are experiencing. Be diligent with actions
which enable you to ‘get' the lessons presented to you. Ask for answers and
you shall receive them. Listen with an open heart. Explore all options. See
your judgment as a mirror. View each crisis as an opportunity. Trust yourself.
Believe in yourself. Look within yourself, to your higher self, for guidance on
all your choices. Extend compassion to yourself.
Remember, there are no mistakes, only lessons (Rule Three). Love yourself,
trust your choices, and everything is possible!
From
If Life is a Game, These are the Rules, © 1998 by Cherie Carter-Scott,published in the UK in 1999 by Hodder & Stoughton."