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Very very interesting perspectives and thoughts. Everyone is blaming, and everyone is just furious and angry at their action - that coming to america was a great mistake, and now that they got no option to do anything about it. Well U guys are daam rt, it was indeed a mistake for me too, probably a second greatest mistake of my life (sorry guys cannot reveal the first biggest mistake of my life; little private, little stupid). Well, but the things and life (life makes sense here , becoz for me learing is what a life is) that I have achieved becoz of that mistakes is much more biiger than that mistakes itself. I am not saying I am happy here, nor I am fulling or even close to my dreams. Well, there are many things, ask back home are they happy?.....It will be 8 years in Aug 15, 2010 9:35 pm OKC since I landed in america.
Things got so out of control emotionally and well sometimes finanacillay, that I used to call back home 2,3 times a week and tell them I would return to Nepal. Well, I guess I hunged there, and after coming close to 8 years, I have come to realize that mistakes are just a part of the life. Time will never come back, and so therefore best thing would be not to repeat those simsilat kind and learn great deal out of it.
In last 7 and half years I went nepal 3 times ( I was shocked when one of the users told that he had not been to nepal for 13 years; i always find this shocking....its not that I have not met ppl with simailar situations...just few months back a guy went to nepal after 22 years........can't beleive what to tell here ). Called my dad mom, sis and other relatives here, and gave a trip of their lifetime..............Plaaaning to go to nepal this Dashai n tihar after 5 years ( went to nepal in 2005 dashai and tihar for 3 months, breaking semster).......Now holding a 8-9 job.........
Life is just normal, But as many of u said above never saw that happiness and others that I get back home. But this is my choice, and Guys believe me its never too late........
Now planning to move outside of USA, somwehere close to Nepal ( not Nepal .......went feb and saw that it will be really really hard for me to survive in Nepal, especially in ktm...Also, guys now someof you gonna say that why don't you bring change what you wish to see.....Sorry I am not Ghandi, not I am Hitler....and I cannot be Nelson too.....I am just simple guy, with some simple and big dreams.....who value relationship and humanity morethan anything else)....Well, Sometimes I think I was lucky. I know there are many out there much more smarter and well qualified than me having a much more harder time with jobs, money, socially, and many more....
What I think is that I did the hardworking as someone pointed above in the right place, in the right time with the right people.
Well, i know i will see much more coming here from others, and I will wait to add more to it.
Well, at last I would like to say........Don't blame yourself, nor anyone...there is no system that is 100%. no matter what, you will find defaults and flaws everywhere. Learnt from it. do what you wanted to do....and Believe me its never too late.....Find the balance, whether it is in Nepal or USA, and most importantly, set your priorities...........nobody will get all they wished....its what you want versus what u don't want...