CyLegend, I think what you are asking for is not unreasonable. But one thing you are overlooking is that the lawswe have now were created when the ideals of the society was different. A lot of women were not working. So, when a husband took care of the wife, the tax breaks and previleges were like a perk for taking care of someone who couldn't take care of themselves financially.

Going back to the OP's question though, its all about who you are compatible with. Don't let anyone decide whats right for you.One good thing about going interracial is you will have beautiful kids most of the time.