Posted by: Dance Zone March 19, 2010
How many of you belive in Long distance realation ship..
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I really don't think anyone — at least not any woman — intends to
end up in a long-distance relationship, but sometimes it just happens.
You fall in love with him/her in town, then he/she moves out of
town. Or you meet him at a military installation, and suddenly one of
you gets shipped out.



It is an understandably difficult commitment to honor if you and
your sweetheart decide to keep the relationship going while you are
apart. Difficult but not impossible.

I have found that there are keys to keeping the romance alive, if both
parties are willing and determined to make it work. Keep in mind that
the length of time you had to get to know the person before you were separated will have a lot to do with how successful your long-distance romance will be.


I must admit that I have had one such relationships for 6 years till we finally decided to get married. We went to Nepal and got married. Trust me it was an inter cast marriage and his family was against our relationship until they gave up. I have found that
there are keys to keeping the romance alive, if both parties are
willing and determined to make it work. Keep in mind that the length of
time you had to get to know the person before you were separated will have a lot to do with how successful your long-distance romance will be.

         Define Your Relationship
Make it a habit to always ask how things are going — with school, work
or family — and then proceed to encourage him in those areas where he
is especially talented.  Encouragement, assistance and praise work well over
email, too. It's also a good idea to "smile over the phone" as much as
possible. A good mood from you on days when your partner may be feeling
especially needy can make both of you feel better.



If you follow this advice, you will be on the road to making your
long-distance relationship last. Even better, it may end someday with
the two of you finally in the same place, having learned so much more
about each other simply because you had to put in a bit more effort.

PS: He gave me a Divorce Papers after one and a half years of our marriage. Believe me or not he decided to give me those papers on my Birthday!! Things changed after our marriage. To him his friends were so important than me. He would even invite friends along with us on our Honey Moon. I didnot imagined my life that way. He started staying at his friends house for 4 days and came home for 3 days. I was so depressed and sad. I was better off single before I got married to him.. My life changed drastically but is remained the same. I guess he felt like I was keeping him away from his friends so I let him go to his friends for good. I couldn't take it anymore. Later I found love letters in his emails. We dont live together anymore since last December.


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