I think we have to deal and find a way with tactfulness and not way too much emotionally in the issues of "Khai Afo Desh Laie Kahi Garnae sakina", "Desh Farkaouu for Good". As far as i can see things are looking good guys. My story: I went back to Nepal for a month vacation after eight years of experience. As i was assessing the situation in Kathmandu and Pokhara i see more opportunities to apply what we learned here in US professionally and what we have in blood ethicly (love for our country and to give back). As far as i can see my sloob friends who were there all their life were just exploiting innocent friends there, trafficking people to Arabs, exploiting nepalese sisters in clubs, involved in politics (they are merely SLC cleared). What i did in this month vacation was volunterred for INGO which was a blissful experience. Also from the professional perspective, i found few new opportunities (an e.g: as i am from Engineering background, creating data inventory of rivers and streams for GIS application, and water resources research; which we can sell to get payback). My guess is that we have to do new things rather than trying to compete with what people are doing  back in Nepal. With this though i am planning to go once every year back from now onwards. Identification cards is on its way, so we will have privlege to work around in our country. The banking system has improved with facility for us to open an account in Kathmandu where we can earn dollars here and deposit in KTM banks so it will be a lot easier to perform monetary transactions. Green card is on its way so that will make life easier to go back anf forth between Nepal and US. Are you guys following and seeing the big picture here?? You don't have to go for GOOD back. You can do a lot from here as well and be back and forth - giving back to country, stay connected with friends and relatives in Nepal; One bullet, two target.

Sorry guys for this long response but i just couldn't help myself here. Again:

 YOU DON'T HAVE TO GO BACK FOR GOOD TO DO SOMETHING IN OUR COUNTRY.

Please try to see the glass half full.