Bro, in my analysis the girls you met were honest and frankly told what they are. My salute for them to be honest. But it is more scary to  believe on someone who is showing something else than reality and make you believe what you were looking for. Just be careful and take your time as you seems to highly value relationship and you are not among those who can easily forgive someone who betray you in this. I suggest you to find girl on your own. It is very scary to depend on parents choice...it's not that they think bad for you. But it's simple that the world has changed a lot and they analysis may not always be correct. They may know someone who is good and may consider their children to be good as well, which may not be true. On my opinion, getting married is not like buying a car or laptop...if you don't like...get a better brand with some additional cost. All the best.