zenith0071:  After a longtime, i happen to see someone who has the same view, same delimma as I had.  Difference is I have alreay been through all that, happily maried with children, and you are just beginning your life and confused!  I am appalled you met all those "type" of girls who have no value, discipline, or character (i know some girls will yell at me for saying that!).  What kind of parties you were in?  Trust me there are still some girls out there who share your values.  Do not be depressed or disoriented. Find some Miss Right quick and get married.  Stay away from the people (girls or boys) who you can not mix well.  i am sure you do not like bar scene or night clubs.  no need to go there.