dear brother you do what you think is right. . if you do something just to please your parents or to show the society without believing in it then that means you are not being  honest. honesty is the best policy my friend...Jesus loves us all even though your christian or not..we can give up on Him but He never gives up on us..its hard for me to understand one thing though why do people criticize christian for helping others.Jesus commands us to love one another ..He tells us to help the needy .and what do people mean when they say that they convert people by giving them money .. Its rather funny to me .. do people think that poor people don"t have brains that they cannot make their own decision .. they r humans too my friends and each one has a right to make their own decision.christians are big on giving they give to help the needy ..whenever any disaster strikes anywhere in the world its Christians who are there first to help people..by the way what do u think RED CROSS, Salvation Army or CRS  is? beside you cannot force someone to be christian.. its not about rituals ..its not that you get baptized and boom ur a christain its much more then that.. there has to be a personal relationship with  God.. you have to believe it in your heart and soul .. If you don't then your not a christian..  I know its very hard for a hindu i myself am a convert and it was extremely hard for me to hear anything against hinduism .but holysprit helped me to know the truth..have a open mind those who are confused just pray a little prayer .. Ask God to show you the truth.. its not complicated ..He is faithful if you pray from ur heart and honestly wanna know the truth He surely will answer your prayers. You know why because He loves you.. He loves you so much that He died for you..