Your categorization of pakhey vs non pakhey only shows you are trying hard to be a non pakhey.
Firstly, non-pakhey people don't care to deal with pakhey people because they are fine with who they are. The only people who bother with pakheys are wanna be non-pakheys who are trying hard to increase the gap between them and pakheys because they were once pakheys and now they think they are not, but their action clearly shows they still have that pakhey mentality.
Mysansar and dcnepal are better than sajha because they don't allow pakhey self appointed people like you to act condescendingly as if they are superior to others.
Take it easy.