very good ideas SIS, but sometimes guyz can be tuned down and consults in the way of their fashion dress and attitude. Imparting that in my personal view if happened to be our man in traditional attires with topi on, ourselves in sari, nicely  n perfect couple, for instance...hajur -  just to repremind them again and again not to drink alchohol, other wise everything will  goes wrong.......wearing topi for guyz is cool ...