Tyahi ta bhaneko. Newar sanghiyata bhannu nai k ho k ho bujhnai sakeko chhaina. I am a 'Joshi' of Kathmandu. Mero thar 'Newar' linguistic group bhitra parchha. One of my relatives married a 'Manandhar', 20 years back, supposedly also a Newar caste. But they have been cut off totally from our clan and guthi for last 20 years. Ajhai acceptance chhaina, ani contact ni chhaina, na ta kunai chad/parva ma, na ta kunai rituals/ bhoj ma.

Podey/ Kusule/ Kapali/ Naapit etc ra aru thuprai yastai caste ni Newar nai hun, bhanna ka lagi, tara ajhai haro ghar ma tiniharuko pani chaldaina. Paani chalne ta ke kura, ghar ma pasaunda samet pasaundaina aji haru le. Ani yo sentiments yati strong chha ki oppose garna ni nasakine. So Newar sanghiyata ko artha ke???????