If I were your family members, I would tell her to LOCK UP her Pus and move out. OR you need to cut your Cucumber. But I am a Sajha user and  since you have already enjoyed Whole 2 years I think its your responsibilities to tell your family. BUT I HOPE YOU GUYS HAVEN'T DONE BHAI TIKA BACK HOME..SOMETIMES COUSINS DO THAT TOO..otherwise it will be YAKEEE..