If one is trying to compare ones happiness with someone else, this is not a valid comparison and will never yield any useful results.

Happiness can never be measured by comparing with others, you are happy to have a grilfriend and a cold beer,
i am happy not to have a grilfriend or a cold beer,


you dont have a set future which makes it possible for you to work on realizing the craziest of your dreams,


ps: i totally agaree with Stupida