A_P, Like I already said, you're taking it too seriously. You cannot relate to the two different situations. It just isn't fair. You have every right to be offended ( Newari - perfect Nepali situation ) while you are NOT entitled to feel offended on the other occasion (Pixie's case ). Nepali is our mother tongue and our national language. English is not! We learned English while we were born and raised speaking Nepali.