Well, My appology..........But as I said that was just my thought...it was first thing that came to my mind, while reading the post.........nontheless, I am very aware with our Nepalese mentality - 'one ear, two ear, and then field' ("aak kan, dui kan, maidan"). however, it doesn't make of all us into same default.

Anyway, this is why I like this kind of healthy conversatations. It really made me think over all these during this weekneed. If all these can be true, and ppl can go to such extend for various reason....I would really wait and find the right one before making any decision. As few of u said above, I still think whatever works best for you is the best choice as marriage doesn't come with guarantee.

But thanks to all out there, for their inputs......It really helped me.