arranged marriage?

I guess it works different for everyone, but heres a scenario.

when parents/family force her, its messed up! she doesnt want to. she wants to live out her life with someone she falls in love with, but now cant cuz she getting forced to marry some bald rich dude with three master diplomas and acres of land in Nepal. plus her dad and his dad are best friends of sorts. she might get tempted, cuz the bald rich dude will give her MOST of the things she wants in life, save one. her poor lover got nothing.. still struggling to make ends meet.. cant buy her a decent gift, but when it comes to love, his is unconditional. but in the end she still chooses to marry rich bald guy  cuz he got financial stability.

in my opinion arranged marriage is a tragedy.. one which kills two peoples shot at love and makes them camels of society, forcing them to bear an unnecessary burden of having to see each other with someone else.

also,

kudos to all participants for maintaining a quality and serious discussion here on sajha. Never seen it happen before.. what??? nepali haru ko outlook change bhai rachaa??? UNPOSSIBLE! :) hehe..

cheers!