Female Fatale, i agree with your thoughts.

i think most of the singles Nepalese here in US of A or in any foreign lands are having difficulties finding a guy or a girl from the same background just because here in the US, singles move around and get scattered in strangest of location because of a job or in pursuit of a better career. 

and I am on a same boat. right after my graduation, i moved to different city because of job and i found myself lost as to what to do about finding a right girls. i don't know what is it, may be my 9-5 job or something else,  i don't get to meet Nepalese girls as i used to when i was in college. now i am getting old ( i am 26 now) and my mom is showing her biggest concern. and stuffs she talks to me really scares me sometime, which is arrange marriage. when i was in college, i always advocated for love marriage over arrange marriage and how people should fall in love and get married but now looking at my own situation, i feel defeated. now i am trying to redefine the meaning of marriage so as to satisfy my own need.

anyway, that's my story and arrange marriage is something that is being pitched at me given my current scenario and i would love to hear some good/bad stories related to it.

i have heard/seen people getting married after chatting remotely or phone calls. how is it  like marrying a person from nepal after 2-5 months of chat/phone calls and couple of meetups. it would be nice to hear from someone who has been though this process.