NightElf  It is not about convincing ourselves man It is about trying not to offend  the parents. Thanx for trying though.

Stat  Yes man We have same Gotra I came to know that from her. I thought as we have different surnames that is OK. I am looking for more insights from wherever I can get. Thanx for your post bro. I  actually feel better but still hope to find some comon ground where we don't have to offend her parents.