Before those "Oh give me a break, just live and let live" folks come attack my views, let me make it clear that I am not against gay rights and equitable society. But I am a little bit skeptic towards those extreme gay right advocates who use or support public display of affection (PDA) as a defiance. You live in a society which has some least set standard of decency and morality most of which are tacit. A society comprises people of all age, gender and intellect. Everyone should be respected with sensibility and responsibility. Some people perceive things differently than others. And those who live by their favorite motto, "live and let live", by true means, would/should not want someone's less responsible act challenge the tacit norms of a society.