Well there are more important things to debate , than what amount the government is paying for marrying a widow . Guy's remember what culture our background is . No parents want to see their son marrying a widow  .What if your friend is the widow , would you not want her to have a happy married life again ? Its just a mature decision by the government and they are looking at the big picture . Every one has the right to happy life , Just like you and me .
The money part , i think that is wrong . Money should never be an incentive for a marriage . May be government is looking at the schedule tribe's and is trying to encourage those  people .
Rather than trying to appose whatever the government does , for a change if we all just act matured and look at the brighter side , we might side with them .
Open mind , open heart ...........