allysma, i have been following this thread and i am surprised that you have been reduced to attacking nepali culture now.
this is not about any culture or nation but rather about families and justice. In any case, there's two sides to the story and we are all trying to get at the truth.
do not try to attack a culture with your implications.
Also, how can just phone calls be the ONLY evidence that is drawn (and I am talking with regards to any case not just to this one). That sounds very shaky.
What's the reason behind you mentioning that A was in Nepal when the girl went there too? Isn't is obvious that they are family and obviously they share same relatives and they would be at the wedding at the same time??  I don't see that much relevance in that fact.
And of course, the guilty should be charged. Don't get me wrong. But in any case, there's two sides to the issue and the punishment should fit the crime. We do but only have one life to live!!!
And Karma will get back to anyone who did injustice...