We can hate all we want, but the bottom line is that everyone takes care of their own self interest. Whether it is family, community, state or nation. And if someone is doing that job better that me, it does not mean I got to hate them. Instead of whining and cribbing about the bad things others are doing to us, and about the unfair hand dealt to us by fate, it would be more constructive to put our head down and work our ass out to be better than the next guy.

In international politics no one cares about right or wrong. The important thing to see is if the interests of two nations alingn. So Nepal as a country has to identify what are the common interest of Nepal and India and how can that can be leveraged to increase co-opeartion (people, business) to the advantage of Nepal. If Nepal can focus on issues that can be spoken from the position of strength, India will be forced to listen.