We have never learned to be professional. When in job, you should behave as a professional, and don't turn professional relation to personal relation. We Nepalis don't understand the difference between professional and personal relation. Political and government employees should have professional relation with Indian counterparts, unfortunately they try to establish/ (overrun professional relative by) personal relation. India is made of 1.3 billion people, and the leaders are leaders of 1.3 billion people, and they are very smart, cunning, and educated as well: They know Sam Dam Danda Bhed, and the only way we can tackle them is by being professional: Kaam gara ghara jou, dherai kura nagara. Then, we would have earned respect. That is how we earn respect whether it is an indian or an american. Keep away your professional friend from your personal life. If you don't do it, then you will be in trouble, and start hating them.