It depends on experience ....If you aspect a lot from a person then, you are being selfish in the sense that  u are aspecting others to help you....but USA.....land of oppurtunities......u gotta be selfish in some way.....Everybody has to do their job ...make living ...what do you aspect them to do....I am satisfied with nepalease in united states ...but some natives or caucaisn over here are kinda racists who will treat u different from what u have expected. I hear kind of dominating voice trying to say u guys are in my country and u guys are taking our oppurtunities. Based on my experience, hai.