Dear Jikle

i m sorry for your husnband.

My Suggestion:

1.  Try to love eachother- by heart (if not divorce)


2. Figure out wheather u r lesbian or not(if yes let your husband free to do sex with other)


3. Try too love and respect yr and husbands body, enjoy playing body of eachother, forget about penetration , enjoy by kissing, hugging, sucking/licking-oral sex, did u try oral, may be licking clit. will work little to u. if u do not have sex desire at all- try to sex therapist, consult w/ Sexologist/psychologist if u have desire in other time.


4. try to control penetration activities on you so that there will be no fear of forceful penetration by your husband, try little n little , make sure u r in top, rub penis to yr clitoris, let him lick , use lubricants, spit, let him suck yr nipple/ear/etc, try to penetrate upto yr interest and increase it every day,


5. If penis of your husband is too large n yr vagina is too small, try for other partner?


6. last option, get drunked/ let yr husband rape u., mentally prepare for little pain. c'mon  girl think pain is associated with pleasure?