Posted by: instinct007 February 18, 2009
Why i lose my cofidence !!!
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Hi Ooommm,

Well, if you are in US, this might be due to downfall of US economy. Its hard to avoid but I suggest you not to watch or listen to lay off news which started to take place in everyday basis.  However, I  personally think its good to know what's happening around you to adjust with the situation. Just like our saying "Khukuri ko chot achano lai matra thaha hunchha" , we as a sajha users can only advice you depending upon our own perception. We don't know exactly what's in your heart.
Please, do try to share your feelings with your very near and dear ones; they can be your friend, mother, wife or girlfriend. Don't put it to yourself. Hamro nepali ma geet chha ni " man ko kura lai bandhi narakha, gatho pari jala, chattai sunai deu".  Let me get to the point. All I'm trying to say is that try to share it with others. This might help you.
Also, please, do try to workout regularly, try to do regular cholestrol and blood pressure checkup, try to eat healthy foods, drink lots of water, eat fruits and vegetables, quit smoking and if you drink drink in moderation. This should help you a lot. I'm not sure may be this is in our blood.  "Gaadhaa lai bhari napuge jastai", If we don't sweat,  this will bring nothing other than disease, bad cholestrol and high blood pressure to us. 
Please, try to stay calm or at least try to look calm. Its the usual practice in fast pace job. Everybody panics; only density differs.
I agree with aaisa, nobody is perfect; one can only try to be perfect. When you panic, you might want to think about geeta saar " We were born naked, crying and empty handed. What is there to fear? What is there to loose?What are you crying for?" It seems easy. But , I know you might be worried about your mortgage, your wife's or girlfriend's bad spending habits, your child future and  your responsibilities towards your old parents back home. If we could get our mind out of this materialistic world, there would be no difference between the saints and humans
All the successful scientists, actors, writers, politicians, monarchs we know today went through your situation.It took years of practice and hard work for them to be the reason for us to know them. Let me take an example of Abraham Lincoln. Since I felt this posting will be pretty long. You can visit  http://www.snopes.com/glurge/lincoln.asp. Also, great scientist Thomas Alva Edison quoted "I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work."
Ooommm ji, you are not the only one; most of us feel the same way. Please, be positive since nothing lasts for ever. I don't think you have to let people know that you are a looser or winner or whinner because Cubic Zarconi might fake diamond for a while but at last everybody will start appreciating diamond which is the result of lots of hard works and lives around the world; especially Sierra Lione.

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