Posted by: ctal November 21, 2008
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Pire and Haribansha,

the guy has said that the girl later (after engagement) called the guy's family and told that she had not passede the first and second years examinations of bachelor study. Even if there is some hidden reason for the guy to discard the girl, this statement must be true since the girl's side has not yet defended that they did not lie about her education.

then the education of the girl itself or or lying about it is not a simple issue that can be compromised or tolerated at least for a guy who is living or studying in the US or wherever and dreaming of having an educated family. If the girl did not pass the first and second years exams, then she is not a good girl in education who would straightly pass the third year exam and there is no guarantee that she would pass the first and second years in the next time and join her husband in the US soon. The guy might have planned that he would bring his wife to US after she would appear third year's exam within 4-5 months. But the woman he was engaged with is unlikely to pass third years exam and he had to wait longer, maybe even 3-4 years if she would pass her all the exams and join him in the US as there is no chance that she would be going back to Nepal every year to write the exams. This means the guy would be marrying just a woman with +2 equivalent. Next, where does Rs 5 lakhs come from for an average person living in the US? Is is so easy for one in the US to make that much money?

Here, the problem is 1) education, and even bigger problem is 2) lying attitude. Can you tolerate a person whom you knew made you fool by lying about something? Do you think your life can go easily with a woman like her who dares to lie and cheat you about one or more things?  

What an unjust and unfortunate decision of a society to beat up and further charge 5 lakhs to the guy while he seems to be innocent?????????

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